Desperate Couple

Byron wondered why he even bothered!!! After eight months of faithfully working out three times a week, he still weighed only 135 pounds and had arms that resembled spaghetti!!! “Okay,” he said under his breath, “let’s see if we can do it tonight!!!” Lying on his back, he hoisted the barbell into the air in an attempt to bench press ninety pounds, and almost instantly he realized that he was in trouble after he brought the bar down to his chest!!! Desperately he tried to heft the iron off of his body, but the more he struggled, the weaker he seemed to become!!! The first rule about bench pressing is to always use a spotter, and at that very moment, Byron was discovering the wisdom of that particular idiom!!! He tried screaming for help, but the air had been forced from his lungs, leaving him in the very precarious position that he may suffocate in a room full of people!!! As unconsciousness began to overtake him, the bar miraculously was wrenched off his chest and blessed air filled his burning lungs!

After coughing for a second or two, he struggled to his feet to thank his savior, but much to his chagrin he was standing face to face with a woman!!! “Hey, dummy,” she said while shaking her head from side to side, “don’t you know enough to use a spotter, you can get killed using free weights by yourself!!!” “If ya want to lift alone, use a machine,” she said while walking away!!! He chased after her and stuck his hand out and gushed, “Of course you’re right, I just want to thank you, I was in real trouble back there, and by the way, my name’s Byron!!!” She gave him a quick once over before breaking into a broad smile and taking his hand in her powerful hand and replying, “Well, I didn’t mean to snap at you Byron, but I just didn’t want to see you get hurt, come on over here, and spot for me, okay!?!” As she walked in front of him, Byron for the first time got a good look at her, and to say the least, she was the most muscular woman he had ever seen in his life!!! While she wasn’t pretty, she had a wholesome looking face with solid Nordic features and a shock of blonde hair that was short enough not to need a comb!!! As she positioned herself under the bar that contained at least two hundred pounds he offered in all seriousness, “I don’t know if you should be trying this, I don’t know how much I could help you if you got into trouble!!!” In a quick motion, the blonde giant grabbed the bar and let it down to her chest, and replied, “No problem, Byron, this is an easy one for me,” and then proceeded to press the bar ten times quickly before returning it to the cradle!!! After five more sets, she sat up and toweled off her face and offered, “How about a soft drink, I’m buying!!!

They sat against the wall, sipped their diet colas, and talked while absentmindedly watching others work out! He found out that her name was Arianna, that everyone called her Ari for short, and that she had been working out for about five years! After taking a drink from his can of pop, Byron asked casually, “May I ask you a personal question!?! “Shoot,” she replied quickly!!! How much do you weigh, I’ve never seen a woman built like you!!!” She chuckled before answering and replied, “That’s a compliment I hope, but to answer your question, I weigh 225 pounds, give or take a pound or two!!!” “Geesh,” he replied in awe, “I’ve been working out like a dog for over six months and still look like a bag of bones!!!” She put her hand on his arm and said softly, “Some people just have trouble building muscle mass, it has nothing to do with how much you work out, it’s all physiological, kind of like you’re preordained!!!” He was listening to her answer, but what he really was thinking about was the feeling that shot through him when she touched his arm, incredible!!!

With his pulse still racing, he stammered, “So tell me, Ari, does your husband or boyfriend work out as you do, I mean, is he all bulked up and all!?!” When didn’t answer, he quickly interjected, “I’m sorry, I shouldn’t have asked such a personal question, please forgive me!!!” She touched his arm again, this time letting her hand linger as she replied, “No, it’s okay, it’s just that, well, I don’t have a boy friend, no man in his right mind would ever want to date someone who looked like me!!!” Now turning to face her, he took her hand and replied, “You’re kidding I hope because you’re about the most amazing woman I’ve ever met!!!” It was then that he first noticed that her eyes were glistening with tears, and he realized that she was really hurting inside!!! He leaned forward, gently kissing her cheek, and said, “Let’s get showered and go have some coffee!!!”

“Two coffees,” Byron said to the waitress in the all-night diner they found not far from the gym! Attempting small talk, Ari commented that she had never been here, but that it had a lot of atmosphere! The waitress returned with their coffee, and then left the two of them alone in the back booth! Byron took a long drink, put his cup down, and said, “I know this is may sound crazy, and don’t get upset, but I think that I’m in love with you!!!” The words hung in the air for what seemed like an eternity, until Ari replied softly, “I-I think I love you too!!!” Byron’s head began spinning when he heard Ari’s response to what he thought was an crazy admission, but incredibly, she felt the way he did!!! They sat in the booth for two hours just talking, trading information about one another, and trying to go slow, even though they were anxious to dive head long in!!! Outside the cafe next to their cars, they kissed under the light of a lamp post, not a sexy French kiss, but a sweet affectionate kiss that new lovers revel in!!! When they pulled apart, each could see it in the other’s eyes, it was electric for both of them!!! This was Wednesday, so they traded phone numbers and made a date for Saturday evening!!! As each of them drove home, they were both positive of one thing, they had each found their soul mate!!!

It had been a marvelous evening, just some burgers and a movie, but it was better than the ballet and a five-course meal at a fancy restaurant!!! It seemed that they were made for each other!!! The one thing that at first was a little disconcerting, was the number of stares Ari received because of her overly developed body, but after a while, Byron didn’t even notice or care!!! Later that evening, in front of Ari’s apartment building, the two of them sat in the front seat of Byron’s car and necked like a couple of teenagers!!! After one particularly long kiss, Byron looked into her eyes and whispered, “I love you, Arianna, just as sure as I can be, I love you!!!” She kissed him again, and then whispered back, “Come on up stairs for a while, I’ll make some coffee!!!

Once inside of the apartment, Ari led him straight to her bedroom! “I thought you were going to make coffee,” he said with a twinkle in his eye!!!” “Shut up and kiss me,” she said as their mouths met in a passionate embrace!!! When they finally pulled apart she offered, “Well, I guess this is it, the moment of truth,” and slowly began removing her clothing!!! Byron watched in awe and fascination while Ari slipped out of her dress, revealing an incredibly muscled body in a thong bikini bottom and a lycra sports bra!!! “Okay,” she said softly, “your turn!!!” He turned three shades of red and stammered, “this is so embarrassing, I feel so, I don’t know, inadequate, I guess!!!” “Why,” she replied, a little dumbfounded, “you’re normal, what do you have to be embarrassed about?!?” “Well,” he stumbled, “you know, it’s just that I’m, well you know, not really that well built!!!” She smiled and laughed affectionately, “Don’t worry, you’ve plenty of man for me,” and then proceeded to help him remove his sweater, under shirt, and trousers!!! The incongruity of it all hit them together, that of her being the huge muscled one and him being the proverbial 98-pound weakling!!! “We do look like an unlikely pair, don’t we,” she said lightly?!? With the ice broken he replied, “Like Mutt and Jeff!!!” She looked him in the eye and asked softly, “Byron, can you take off my bra and panties for me, please?!?” He made an audible gulping sound in his throat, but with shaking hands, slipped the tight-fitting bra over her head!!! Her chest was like none he had ever seen in person or in photographs, and he sucked in his breath while trying to contain himself!!! “T-they’re beautiful, Ari,” he whispered, “I can’t believe how lucky I am!!!” “D-do you like them,” she said in almost a pleading voice, “most men find them very unattractive!!!” “My god,” he groaned, “they’re unreal, m-may I touch them?!?” She took in a deep breath which seemed to expand her chest even more, and whispered, “Please, I want you to feel them, they’re yours!!!” What made her boobs so unusual, was that her breasts were pulled tight against her chest due to her massive muscle development, while her nipples stood out erect and proud, almost begging to be sucked!!! At his first touch, the air whistled out of her, and she involuntarily pressed forward, encouraging his mammalian exploration!!! Seeing her positive reaction, Byron leaned down and took a hard nipple into his mouth, resulting in a loud moan from deep inside Ari’s throat!!! Growing bolder, he continued sucking, but let his hand slip to her crotch where began feeling her mound through her skimpy panties!!! Between pants, she begged, “I want you now, please take me!!!”

After gently pushing her back down on the bed, he casually reached out and tugged the tiny nylon thong off of Ari’s hips!!! Now it was his turn to suck in his breath, because right before his very eyes was the most succulent pussy he had ever seen, which was shaved completely bare, with lips bulging out obscenely, practically begging to be licked or fucked!!! He kicked off his boxers, exposing his erection to her eyes for the first time!!! He wasn’t hung like King Kong, but his six inches was certainly adequate, especially for a woman who hadn’t been fucked in over three years!!! He mounted her quickly, his penis immediately finding her entrance as if it were drawn by a powerful magnet!!! He kept saying to himself to go slow, but in his excitement that was a hopeless idea, so in one hard thrust, he buried it deep into her wetness, a union between two people who both felt like this moment would never happen to them!!! As hard as her body was, her pussy was just that soft, enveloping him, coaxing the seed out of his erection in waves of spurting cum!!!

In the end, size didn’t matter, he was a man, and she a woman, and each performed their role like countless other couples around the world at that very moment!!! She outweighed him almost two to one, and in terms of strength, it wasn’t even close, but when it came time, he took her and made her his own, and that’s how it began, for these two disparate lovers!!!

Sex Is an Emotional Bonding Mechanism for Men

 

Reproductively women are more essential than men are. Men go into battle not only because they are more suited to it but also because, reproductively, they are more dispensable than women. So men do not have the same emotional reassurance women have of being needed. Once a man chooses a mate, he feels emotionally fulfilled because she has accepted him as a lover. He considers his love for her to be special because it is sexual love.

Women don't tend to worry about pleasing a man because men's pleasure is usually very evident. Men's satisfaction in ejaculating as well as their post-coital gratitude for a woman providing them relief from sexual frustration provides plenty of proof of pleasure. Most men need some kind of invitation before they are confident to initiate intercourse with a partner. A man may wait for a woman to indicate her amenability or he may hint and wait for a reaction. Women offer sex because they know it's expected.

A man commits to a relationship with a woman who offers him more regular sex than he can get elsewhere. If women offered sex readily and easily to any passing male, then men would have no reason to settle for one woman. Sex is the bonding mechanism that makes relationships possible. But it is male promiscuity that means men need to be incentivized, not women.

For men sex (defined by intercourse) is orgasm. If a man engages in penetrative sex, it is almost a given that he will have an orgasm. So he assumes that the same is true for a woman. Men assume that women engage in intercourse because of this imagined pleasure. A man obtains an emotional reward when a woman responds lovingly. He assumes that she is satisfied and that she appreciates his performance. Men's enjoyment of sexual pleasure is enhanced by the idea that they have pleasured a lover.

For a woman, sex is a social activity. But for a man, intercourse represents the culmination of his arousal cycle that is commenced many times throughout the days or weeks and concluded only when he has intercourse. Intercourse is a male activity that men orchestrate. A man's performance is vitally important to him and he doesn't want to be judged by a woman. Men insist on the fantasy that women are aroused by a large penis or long intercourse because it increases the importance of their own role in the act.

Men have not heralded the invention of vibrators with joy. Men are not interested in whether a woman is capable of orgasm per se. Men specifically want a woman to respond to what men do to them. Men's prime focus is natural intercourse. But men who are interested in erotic turn-ons other than intercourse also hope that a woman will be aroused by breast and clitoral stimulation with a lover regardless of any scientific facts or logic.

Their physical strength and emotional robustness cause men to assume their superiority over women in all things. This makes it difficult for men to ever admit that they hope for a woman's approval. They want a woman to confirm their prowess as a lover. They want to feel that their desire to penetrate her is reciprocated, that she obtains a similar pleasure from sex.

The mating position used by other mammals is a rear entry (the man penetrates the woman from behind). Western society favors the missionary position (man on top of the woman but facing her). An advantage of the position is that intercourse can be incorporated into a lovemaking act. But it also causes the woman's mental engagement (or lack of) to be visible to her partner. The need for a woman to appear more involved in lovemaking contributes to the emotional bonding process.

Men often compliment women on their looks. Women do not typically pay men equivalent compliments. So men do not obtain the same feedback or emotional reassurance. Men suspect that sexual pleasure is all theirs because of the obvious signs. Women rarely initiate sex or behave proactively during sex. Women are not euphoric after intercourse, nor do they exhibit any signs of sexual lease and post-coital gratitude that men do.

Unless a woman puts on an exaggerated performance, a man has no way of knowing that she has been pleased with his lovemaking. So men are always asking how they can pleasure a woman. The female orgasm is a topic of discussion because it is a male turn-on. Men equate sex with orgasm, so female orgasm is used as a token of women's supposed enjoyment of sex.

Help Me to Understand You Better

 Isn't it interesting how, when we're in a long-standing relationship, we expect, and even assume that our partner will know our likes and dislikes, and how we think about certain things? We can become disappointed, even angry if they slip up, don't 'get us, or misread us completely; 'they should have known I would/wouldn't like that, whatever were they thinking!'

We may feel that they're not paying attention, are not fully invested in the relationship, or don't care enough about us. But maybe we should question if we've explained ourselves sufficiently well. How could they know these things, have we told them, or do we expect them to be psychic?

We meet other people, potential new friends, in random, yet self-selecting situations, often starting with only one or two points of commonality. We may work together, go to the gym at the same time, network, and use public transport. Over time our initial smile of recognition may gradually evolve into a few words of friendly greeting or even an interest in taking things further and socializing together.

A new friendship can blossom as we start to find out more about each other, perhaps being pleasantly surprised as we discover shared interests, likes, and dislikes. We may feel so comfortable and in tune with each other that we simply assume that we share the same views and outlooks on many other topics.

Someone I hardly know, a friend of a mutual acquaintance, recently sent me a text saying that she'd had a dream about me. In her dream, she said that I'd wanted to tell her certain things but felt unable to do so. She had texted me because she was concerned about me and my emotional state.

She was shocked when I replied, pointing out that it was her dream, the feelings were hers and anything she ascribed to me in the dream was actually nothing to do with me at all. She'd merely used me as a conduit to express her own thoughts and feelings about various things that were happening in her life. She'd interpreted the dream as being true to life, an insight into how I was actually feeling at the time when in reality it was all about her.

This is a perfect example of the way our own reality can absorb and consume us to such an extent that we lose sight of how unique our personal experience of life is. We each have our own individual perspectives and perception of life and living.

So how do we become better able to understand each other?

- When we want to relate to, understand, and get to know others improving how we listen to them is an important skill. Double-checking that we've heard and understood correctly, maybe clarifying details that we're unsure about, and showing that we're interested and engaged all help in improving any communications.

- Practise empathy. How would you feel if you were in their situation? Clearly, they have their own interpretation of what's going on, but being supportive and demonstrating an emotion that resonates with what they've said shows that you're trying to be in tune with them, and are respecting their situation.

- But equally, avoid hi-jacking the conversation with an, 'I know how you feel, it happened to me, let me tell you all about it!' Whilst it might be comforting for them to know they're not alone in their experiences, this does rather succeed in diminishing their feelings and makes the conversation all about you. Not very understanding is it!

- Avoid the temptation to jump to conclusions, finish sentences or second-guess what you're being told. Make good eye contact and be patient as you listen attentively. Understanding comes from appreciating the full picture, and how they're feeling about their story, not just the words that are being said.

- Good communicators avoid using jargon or acronyms. They explain the basics, not in a condescending way, but in a way that allows others to feel comfortable and included. When we're familiar with our own subject, and are all too aware of our own story, it can be easy to presume that others are as au fait as we are, that they have the same level of understanding. But that's not always the case.

We can be so immersed and wrapped up in our story, our own version of events that we, often unwittingly, preclude others from being able to understand us. A little extra care and attention invested in expressing ourselves well can make all the difference and help others be able to understand us better.

Susan Leigh, South Manchester counselor, hypnotherapist, relationship counselor writer & media contributor offers help with relationship issues, stress management, assertiveness, and confidence. She works with individual clients, and couples and provides corporate workshops and support.

How to Bring Variety to Intercourse in your Relationship.

  

For many people, penetration is the ultimate turn-on because it is the most intimate act we can engage in with another person. Different positions bring some variety to a very basic mating act. Women are much less interested in different positions. Rear entries can be more explicit and erotic.

Positions for intercourse include woman-on-top and doggy style with the man behind. Different positions for intercourse are popular with men because they allow men more explicit views of their thrusting action. Couples experiment for a while but they usually resume missionary-style intercourse. This position involves the least work for the woman and gives the man the best position to control the stimulation he obtains from thrusting.

Quickies can be erotic if used in different venues. Quickies often involve a standing position even if only rear entry bent over a table or in the shower. The woman can support herself against an object (a tree, a table or the side of the shower) or lean over at 90 degrees and rest face down. If a woman usually moves her hips during intercourse (to assist with penile stimulation and give a more proactive sense of participation) it can be pleasant to have the excuse to do absolutely nothing. A man's need to ejaculate into an orifice is clear and may cause a woman to feel like a receptacle for semen. If a couple has a positive relationship, the rewards can go both ways.

Some men fantasize about having intercourse outdoors or in unusual places. More proactive couples change the venue for sex on an ad hoc basis. Some people enjoy the risk of being caught or observed in venues such as on public transport or in the cinema. Some people like to watch and others like to be watched. Dogging is popular in the UK, which involves couples having sex (often in the car) in woods that are designated for the purpose so that others (primarily men) can watch. Others may prefer the privacy and seclusion of venues such as a private garden or a remote rural location.

Some couples may enjoy dressing up or using fantasy role play to play-act sexual scenarios. Some couples are attracted to tickling, spanking, and other kink activities. It's all part of the fun. What appeals depend on the personality and a person's fantasies. Much of this activity is purely sensual for a woman.

A man can tell a woman what he is thinking as he stimulates her from behind. A man should talk in terms of urges, domination, and possession rather than the graphic detail that men enjoy. A man can stroke the area between a woman's thighs (from the clitoris through to the anus). He can hold her butt cheeks apart before and as he penetrates her. He can use a hand to hold a woman firmly down as he dominates her (only with her permission!).

A man should change his rhythm of thrusting and depth of penetration by alternating between teasing the glans of his penis in the entrance of his lover's vagina (the most sensitive part) and using longer deeper thrusts. A man can use his body weight to provide a sense of domination. When a man thrusts deeply the base of his penis thumps against her vulva and perineum (towards the anus). The woman may enjoy mild sensations of arousal, especially when her partner's groin grinds into her labia and clitoris.

A woman may enjoy the eroticism of being dominated (from the whole body contact and his weight) and the psychological satisfaction of being penetrated (from knowing that his penis is deep inside her body). Intercourse provides little internal sensation but a woman can feel external pressure. A man can demonstrate affection by kissing and caressing her.

BDSM involves the use of physical restraints that limit a person's range of motion and play-acting of submissive and dominant roles by consenting adults. To increase safety, couples use a safe words so that the person in the submissive role can stop all activity. They also discuss in advance what they agree to be the limits on allowed activities. A less risky version involves using only mild bondage and a blindfold to make sex slightly more mysterious and heighten the sensations of being penetrated and touched by a lover.

Women often conclude that men lack imagination when it comes to sex. This is because intercourse is a relatively mundane repetitive act for a woman whereas for a man, penetration represents the most erotic situation imaginable. This is natural given men's biological sex drive. Many men have no need for fantasies of any kind because intercourse is sufficient for their sexual needs. For women, sex is a social rather than an erotic experience. They hope for a lover with sensitivity to their needs, which are more psychological than physical. Women enjoy sensual teasing, sexual anticipation and feeling desired. This all takes time, which is difficult for a younger man. Older men, who are less acutely aroused, have the luxury of time to enjoy their own arousal and to spend time pleasuring a lover.

4 Mistakes to Avoid When Describing Yourself

 

 While we have strong opinions about people we interact with at home or at work, you will be surprised to know that people find it quite challenging to describe themselves. Describing yourself on paper is especially important when it comes to creating your online dating profile or profiles on matchmaking sites.

You are not only expected to describe yourself but do it in such a way that it attracts the right people to show interest or respond positively when you reach people you are interested in.

Here are some of the 4 common mistakes you should avoid when describing yourself.

1. Blowing your own trumpet

The purpose of your online profile is to describe your personality, lifestyle, interests, and expectations. The idea is to sound like a real human being with an emphasis on sounding genuine. Avoid filling up your profile with adjectives or trying to project an exaggerated view of who you are. Nobody likes people who take themselves too seriously. Even if you really are God's gift to mankind, project a little bit of humility when you write about yourself.

2. Beating yourself up

While humility is always appreciated, there is no need to berate yourself in an attempt to sound genuine. Calling out every little physical flaw, personality quirks, family issue (even if it is a passing reference), fears or frustrations, past failures, and failed relationships should definitely be avoided. There is no point in turning people away by sharing a lop-sided view of all the things that did not go well in your life.

3. Focussing too much on your material possessions

While the world around is materialistic and money does indeed attract people, restrain your urge to show off your wealth. Having a profile photo with your fancy supercar in the background or on your Million-dollar yacht sends all the wrong signals and will probably attract people who may be interested more in your wealth. If you are wealthy, there is no need to call it out either through your profile photograph or in your profile write-up. You always have the option to screen people depending on the criteria offered by the matchmaking or dating site you may be using if you are particular about dating or marrying people with a similar social status.

4. Not paying attention to spelling and grammar

When you write about yourself, pay attention to spelling and grammar. Having a well-written, coherent profile free from spelling and grammar mistakes is a fundamental requirement to create a good first impression. That's not all, filling your profile description with slang, acronyms, and truncated words will convey to people that you are not a serious party worth responding to.

I can't get through

  

Why give me such pain, seeing you walk away

After giving you all my love, now you wanna leave me alone

You filled my heart with love but wanna leave it empty

Why give me such pain, seeing you walk away

Recalling the day we met, strangers we were to each other

But love erupts from within, we promised never to break our hearts

Now you wanna go, breaking mine, I can't get through such pain

Remember that day, you swore by the moonlight

Never to break my heart, I can't get through such pain

I got a great love for you, I can't let go no matter what

Don't break my heart, by leaving me

Why give me such pain, to see you walk away

Hold back your move, spare our love

I won't break your heart, I'll always treat you right

Don't give me such pain, to see you walk away

Poetry of Sex

 

 

I am deeply thoughtful of poetry, particularly when related to sex. One of the medieval poems that have impressed me is the "Song of Songs". This song refers to the love between God and the soul. God is deeply in love with us and wills our love in return. This love between the soul and God, which is the most intimate love possible, is expressed in the analogy of bride and bridegroom, where the intimacy of love is especially expressed. Nothing can be more intimate than this love where a bride and her love enter into a carnal embrace. In history, no book has received such intensely devoted attention in commentary and preaching as this song.

The composer of this song was Bernard of Clairvaux. He was a French abbot and the primary reformer of the Cistercian order. The Song does not have the same importance as earlier, but nevertheless, it is a part of modern people's imagination. Bernard preached eighty-six homilies on the Song and died just as he was getting started on chapter 3

The song and Lusty thoughts

The song is often read in modern days as a lusty celebration of sex People like me read it to brush aside the prudish poetry and try and peep into the sex acts of Solomon and his Shulammite ( women of Jerusalem). Thus the contemporary obsession is projected by the ancient text. It assumes that everybody knows about sex and it's depth. Perhaps in modern times we have outgrown old romantic notions of sex and know it more as a clash of bodies and exchange of fluids. There is thus no magic and no mystery in it. The song is disguised pornography that gives sex a sacred image. It represents the confusion of that age.

The Erotic Poem

The song teaches a lot. Robert Alter has made a telling observation. As per him, the song is the epitome of erotic literature. The theme states that the body in the act of love seems to displace the rest of the world.

The song affirms joyful love. In the poem, Solomon is a lover who abandons the world for the love of his bride. The beauty of the song is that he rediscovers the world and loves her. This glorious insight is enough to justify the song as great literature.

The song itself sinks the reader into something deeper. The song gives the poem a cosmic look. The strength of love is comparable to forces of decay and destruction i.e. death and Sheol.

Further discussion

Despite all allusions to god, the poem is an erotic piece. As per the poem, love, like wine is the intoxicating desire of carnal knowledge. This is disguised as sexual attraction. The theme covers all this and brings out that God invites his beloved into the "house of wine". Wine is a fitting trope for the one love because it is a fitting trope for the other. Forests, orchards, and gardens are figures of the temple, The lover's enthrallment to his beloved is the Lord's enthralled fascination for his people, black but beautiful.

The song brings out something that has been known since time immemorial that sex is an allegory and it includes metaphysics theology and cosmology. For Christians, sexual difference and union is a type of Christ and the church: How could an erotic poem (and in the Bible!) be anything but allegory?

Poetry like this brings out the truth of human sexuality. Only as an allegory does the Song have anything to teach us about sex. Only as an allegory can the Song play its central role in healing our sexual imaginations.

Last word

How similar this is to the Tantra of Hinduism where sex is unadulterated bliss and a path to God and salvation. This poem also explores the union of man and woman in a similar vein. I am sure friends will now read this poem along with the Tantra as espoused in the Puranas and conclude that sex has a definite place in the world and cannot be brushed under anything.